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While Buddhism neither encourages nor discourages marriage, it does offer some guidelines for it. While Buddhist practice varies considerably among its various schools, marriage is one of the few concepts specifically mentioned in the context of Sila (Buddhist behavior discipline). The fundamental code of Buddhist ethics, the Pancasila (or five precepts), contains an admonishment of sexual misconduct, though what constitutes such misconduct from a Buddhist perspective varies widely depending on the local culture.

The Digha Nikaya 31 (Sigalovada Sutta) describes the respect that one is expected to give to one's spouse.
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Advice on What to do for Wedding Ceremonies by Lama Zopa Rinpoche
http://www.fpmt.org/teachers/zopa/advice/pdf/weddingadvicelzr_03.pdf


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Buddhism and Marriage - by Rev. TS Deacon Economos
http://www.deaconministry.com/buddhism.htm

Buddhism and Marriage
http://www.enotes.com/soc/group/discuss/buddhism-marriage-11729

 Buddhism and the Glorious Marriage - by Henry Alabaster - book

 

 

Buddhist struggles with impermanence vs. marriage - by Susan Piver
http://www.beliefnet.com/story/196/story_19657.html

Buddhist view of marriage
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buddhist_view_of_marriage

Buddhist Views on Marriage
http://web.singnet.com.sg/~alankhoo/MoreQA.htm#Marriage

Buddhist Views on Marriage
sinc.sunysb.edu

Buddhist Views on Marriage
http://web.singnet.com.sg/~alankhoo/MoreQA.htm#Marriage

Buddhist Wedding
india.mapsofindia.com

Buddhist Wedding - Ngala Rig'dzin Dorje and Tsal'gyur Wangmo
http://arobuddhism.org/encyclopaedia/shared/text/n/nrd_ph_13_wedding_eng.php

Buddhist Weddings
by weddingguideuk.com

Buddhist Wedding
baliwww.com

Buddhist Wedding Ceremoney
http://www.fpmt.org/teachers/zopa/advice/pdf/weddingceremonyeditedkm.pdf

Buddhist Wedding Prayer
http://www.fpmt.org/teachers/zopa/advice/pdf/buddhistweddingprayer_LTY.pdf

Buddhist Wedding Vows
http://1weddingsource.com/vows/buddhist-wedding-vows.php


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Early Buddhist Ceremonies - by Sayadaw Bhaddanta Silanandabhivamsa

 Essays on marriage - companions of Zen training - by Seikan Hasegawa - book - In his latest book, Hasegawa, a Japanese-born Zen Buddhist monk who has lived in America for the last 30 years, explains the Zen attitude toward marriage. In 22 short essays, he covers everything from virginity and sexual desire to jealousy, children, unusual marriages, divorce, and loyalty. The advice he gives sometimes seems inconsistent and contradictory, swinging from the very tolerant and forgiving (adultery and gay marriages are acceptable) to the very intolerant (abortions are not). But generally Hasegawa takes a commonsense approach toward problems likely to arise in a marriage. Although he is at home in the English language, his writing is peppered with odd phrases ("as useless as a dead fox") and wrong words ("playmate" instead of "tennis partner"). Hasegawa is the author of two other books (e.g., The Cave of Poison Grass) that also offer practical Zen suggestions for living. Recommended for specialized collections.AKitty Dean Chen, Nassau Community Coll., Garden City, NY --Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.


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Happy Married Life - A Buddhist View - by K Sri Dhammananda
http://www.kusala.org/udharma7/marriedlife.html


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 If the Buddha Dated: A Handbook for Finding Love on a Spiritual Path by Charlotte Kasl - book - In this practical, playful, yet spiritual guide, Charlotte Kasl, author of the highly successful Finding Joy: 101 Ways to Free Your Spirit and Dance with Life, shows you what it would be like to have the ancient wisdom of the Buddha to guide you through the dating process.

 

 If the Buddha Married by Charlotte Kasl - book - Last year, psychotherapist Charlotte Kasl explored the first flushes of romance in If the Buddha Dated; now she takes the next step in If the Buddha Married: Creating Enduring Relationships on a Spiritual Path. There is some strong, wise marital advice here, but how Buddhist is it? One glaring fact that Kasl never so much as mentions is that the Buddha did have a wife and child, whom he abandoned in the quest for enlightenment. A more interesting book would have investigated the tensions between the demands (and joys) of marital relationships and the individual's need to embark on the spiritual journey.--Copyright 2001 Cahners Business Information, Inc


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Love and Marriage a Buddhist Perspective - by Vidyananda - book

Love & Marriage - Zen Buddhist Reflections by James Ishmael Ford
http://lifestylenutritionmanagement.com/loveandmarriage.php


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Marriage - Thailand
wikipedia.org

Marriage and Buddhism
hometown.aol.com

Marriage and Buddhism
http://members.aol.com/_ht_a/gayzenla/myhomepage/marriage.htm

Marriage and family relationships 
http://family.jrank.org/pages/183/Buddhism-Buddhism-Family.html

Marriage Ceremoney
http://www.buddhanet.net/funeral.htm

Marriage in Thailand
th4u.com

Marriage in the Western Buddhist Order - by Friends of Western Buddhist Order
http://madhyamavani.fwbo.org/3/marriage.html

Married Monks
time.com

Monks on Marriage a Twelfth-Century View - by Jean Leclercq - book


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 Neither Monk nor Layman: Clerical Marriage in Modern Japanese Buddhism - by Richard Jaffe - book - Jaffe does a masterful job of weaving together into a compelling narrative his extensive and well-documented historical sources... This is an important contribution to modern Japanese religious history. Choice [A] richly detailed and clearly written work... Jaffe provides abundant material for anyone interested in state-religion issues... A must read for anyone interested in Japanese religious history, Buddhism, or Japanese history. -- Stephen G. Covell Japanese Journal of Religious Studies This work carefully integrates a deep understanding of Buddhist doctrine with historical detail and ethnographic description. On the issue of clerical marriage in Japanese Buddhism, not only is Jaffe's book the only show in town, but it is a show that no one interested in Japanese Buddhism, Meiji history, church-state relations, religious celibacy, modernization, or secularization would want to miss. -- John S. LoBreglio Journal of Asian Studies One of the most commonly misunderstood aspects of Japanese Buddhism involves the marriage of clerics. Buddhists from most other countries consider this a sign of the overall decline of Buddhism in Japan and think that Japanese clerics are simply incapable of controlling their desires... Both sides of this complex issue are presented clearly, and the idea of over-all decline is thoroughly debunked. This cross-disciplinary book is important not only to studies of religion but also to those of anthropology and history. -- Sarah Horton Religious Studies Review Jaffe's work is beautifully referenced and composed, full of illuminating sidelights and contextual explorations, and displaying powerful detail and tireless pursuit of textual evidence... Jaffe's research performs a quite groundbreaking synthesis in any language. -- Galen Amstutz Journal of Japanese Studies


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Passionate Buddha: Wisdom on Intimacy and Enduring Love by Robert Sachs - book - The Passionate Buddha is a must for anyone seeking to practice the profound path of intimate relationship. -- Tsultrim Allione, author of Women of Wisdom and founder of Tara Mandala Retreat Center
The Passionate Buddha is a wonderful book on the proper handling of the magnetics of the heart. -- Stephen Levine, author of Embracing the Beloved and A Year to Live: How to Live This Year as if It Were Your Last

Personal Ceremonies - Marriage Ceremony
buddhanet.net

Personal Ceremonies: Marriage/Funeral Rites
buddhanet.net


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Thailand weddings web site is dedicated to offering real Thai weddings and correct information for people wishing to marry in Thailand
http://www.thaiworldview.com/bouddha/wed1.htm

 


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 Wedding Zen: Calming Wisdom for the Bride - by Susan Ella Macneal - book - For stressed-out brides-to-be, finally there's an alternative to last-minute elopement: Wedding Zen is an oasis of calm amidst the chaos of planning a wedding. By applying the classic teachings of Zen to time-honored nuptial traditions, this darling book shows that a little namaste can improve The Big Day in a dramatic way. Drawn from Zen teachings such as staying mindful of worldly attachments (remember: it's the thought, not the gift, that counts!) and surrendering the ego (but she's your mother, and you love her), here are dozens of tips for warding off trouble in nirvana. Wedding Zen packs a bouquet of wisdom into a charming, beautifully illustrated volume, making this a perfect bridal shower gift. So when preparations get a little crazy -- or a lot crazy -- relief for the bride, and good karma for the giver, is close at hand.


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Zen and the Art of Intimacy:  The Simple Path of Passion, Fidelity and Love by Arthur Samuels - book - Helps readers experience intimacy and commitment in a way that is liberating, fulfilling and deeply gratifying.

 

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